I’ve never been petty, I mean a bunch of these so called champions of black womanhood have done and said crap to me in private and I may post a lesson from it. But I’ve never called name. Well I’m beyond that now. I’m older and really don’t give much a damn about folks feelings so here’s my fuck you to certain folks. Don’t come for me unless I call you. And Trini Alvarado as she’s known on Facebook, I’m talking to you. And if you’re a friend of hers on Facebook please direct her to this post. Y’all really shouldn’t fuck around with Tauruses we don’t care.
This is a person I supposedly inspired to be a paralegal. But you another wise woman said this and I knew she was right, when it’s time for someone to come and tear me down it won’t be black men, it will be black women’. I don’t know what I did to her but at this moment, I don’t care. Because if your going to be mad at me you’re going to be mad at me for a reason. Here’s your reason Trini, I’m putting what you said to me in private in public. I’m sick of bw doing this, trying to come at you in secret. Hell, if you coming for me do it in public. This is the exchange.
I’m sure some you reading this saw some exchanges between she and I on Facebook. How I inspired her choice of career and other things and in the end this is what I get because I said something to someone she’s friends with on FB who tried to come for me too. I get this. You know this is why all this black sisterhood and uplifting crap is never going to work. This is also why I’m careful who I engage with because folks will turn on you like rabid dogs. I’m done but I’m glad I did this, it’s cathartic exposing people. Also it’s to let people know if you try to fuck me over, I will make you regret it.
Yes I am returning better than ever and you get a chance to peep at my very busy twin boys. http://youtu.be/d2NnsjUj_V0
Thanks for a great year even while I was away but Married Girl is coming back with a bang for 2015! Stay tuned for exciting news. The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2014 annual report for this blog.
Here’s an excerpt:
The concert hall at the Sydney Opera House holds 2,700 people. This blog was viewed about 40,000 times in 2014. If it were a concert at Sydney Opera House, it would take about 15 sold-out performances for that many people to see it.
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I’ve been gone for awhile but this fine line crap needed an emergency post only I could give it.
As you know Married Girl In A Weird World has been out of circulation for awhile. It is not coming back but this blog has always been my baby and the place where most people get got news about me and my opinions. So yes I have happy news, last year as you may well know Mr. Berg and I suffered a miscarriage in our first pregnancy. It was tough and for awhile and I wasn’t sure I wanted to try again to conceive, the fear can be overwhelming but we tried again. And I conceived so we’re pregnant again but that isn’t the big part of the news. Not only are we pregnant this week we found out we’re pregnant with twins. Yes, twins! I was more than a little shocked but this morning sickness has been kicking my butt. Yes, we’re thrilled about being parents, now to wrap my head around being parents to two babies at once. I wanted to share with the folks that have enjoyed my blog. Now what does this mean for all the blogs, well right now they are all on hiatus until further notice. It takes a lot to be a pregnant type 1 diabetic so all my focus is on making sure me and the Sweet Peas are healthy and happy. So we’ll see everyone later!
It’s time for my blog and vlog to end but it’s been one of heck of ride. But it’s time to live the life that I’m destined for. Thank you so much for coming along with me, don’t worry I’ll see you again. If you’re looking my two other blogs, go here and here and you’ll find me.
I’m giving the 11 steps that you need to measure your success in making good, healthy, definable boundaries in your life.
Guilt can be difficult to deal with but if you do it will make things better. You don’t have to fear abandonment but you can’t make boundaries in a vacuum, you need support.
Not forgiving people makes sure you stay attached to them and never live your best life. Focusing on what other people need to change is just a way for you not to have to change, boundaries always start with you.
There are fears we have from childhood that may keep us from making healthy boundaries with people. And also our comfort in our discomfort may also keep in boundaryless relationships. Fear can keep us in bondage if we don’t face it. Please excuse the end, my camera just cut off and my microphone stopped working.