There are fears we have from childhood that may keep us from making healthy boundaries with people. And also our comfort in our discomfort may also keep in boundaryless relationships. Fear can keep us in bondage if we don’t face it. Please excuse the end, my camera just cut off and my microphone stopped working.
There can be a point where indifference turns into malicious hate and black men have crossed it with black women.
Yes people get really angry when you start to set up boundaries but that’s okay that’s their issue not yours. Don’t take it on.
Anger is a legitimate emotion, continual anger is just victimhood. Victimhood doesn’t empower anyone.