Internal Resistance to Boundaries: Guilt and Fear of Abandonment

Guilt can be difficult to deal with but if you do it will make things better. You don’t have to fear abandonment but you can’t make boundaries in a vacuum, you need support.



Internal Resistance to Boundaries: Unforgiveness and External Focus

Not forgiving people makes sure you stay attached to them and never live your best life. Focusing on what other people need to change is just a way for you not to have to change, boundaries always start with you.